Things with Travis are not good.
They haven’t been good for a long time, or maybe they never were.
I am fantastically hopeful and persistent to a fault.
But everyone has a last straw.
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Plausible Deniability
“If you are not a practiced liar don’t try to start. It will backfire. You are dealing with pros. You would not believe the time and energy that real liars pour into honing their craft.” -Someone on Substack
Not to put too fine a point on it, but that’s exactly right.
I don’t think of myself as a liar. I’m an engineer. I almost never tell lies. Lies are dangerous and they’re a lot of work. Lies are unsophisticated at best and they take up a huge amount of working memory. Lies require backstories and supporting evidence. You never know when a lie will come unraveled due to factors beyond your control.
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No Rest For The Wicked 